Try not to take this the wrong way, but a reason why you are getting disrespected is simply because you do not show yourself enough respect. You may think you do, but driving yourself over to a man’s house after certain hours is simply asking to be put in a category of lust. You can’t just go to a man’s house late at night all the time and have him believing he isn’t going to get the goods. Men have expectations and if you don’t lay down some requirements by telling him , he might try to set them by assuming that’s why you went to his house in the first place. Personally, any man who steps in my path that shows interest I tell him from the start…If your intentions are only to get into my panties, you are wasting your time, because it’s not going to happen. Not to the point where I am being stuck up, but to the point where I’m not trying to waste somebody else’s time. And I’m not saying if you have sex, you don’t respect yourself and you’re a whore. All I’m saying is… Next time a man hits you up just to be a booty call know that you’re worth more than that. If you want to be treated like a lady, you can’t act like one, you actually have to be one.
People tend to fear love more then they portray and prefer to live in lust.. Walls have been built for years due to experiencing pain, disappointment, betrayal, and unfaithfulness. As the years go on these walls are built even stronger to the point where they almost can’t be broken down.Love is easy, it’s the peoples fault why love has become so difficult and hard to find. Just by the games that are played, the lies that are told, and the deceit that takes place. Relationships don’t start and most certainly don’t last because there are two people that are supposed to work as one, but one always seems to forget that it’s not just about you. It’s supposed to be about us. Relationships don’t last because that’s what you allow to happen. Don’t be fooled you can not make somebody love you if they don’t. Love is not about pretending, it’s about knowing. Why are people so intimidated to be loved? Maybe because you are just not be ready for love. And if you aren’t ready for love you CAN NOT be tagging someone along for the ride and allow yourself to put thoughts in their head that clearly don’t exist. Learn to love instead of pretending too.If you aren’t ready for a relationship and have a hard time committing to someone else, there is something called no strings attached, but at the end of the day you’ll realize you’re still alone. Take this time to realize life is so much more beautiful once love is involved.
I’m at the point in my life where I must focus on me. I’m not looking for love. When you look for something that’s when you don’t find it. If your going to approach me, please don’t have the intentions that you think your getting in my panties or capable of being with me, don’t take it the wrong way because I tend to be incompatible. My time is now, and I’m going to spend it as wisely as possible. Life is too short to just waste it.
